When you get to how one you want the bracelet to be, do only the first half of the "X"...
... then thread the middle stands down through the buckle.
Cross the outer stands behind like you normally would.
Bring the middle stands up and down through the middle.
Then bring them back toward you under the two back stands and the pink one, then under the loop you made in the last step and the top of the black loop.
Tighten the knots and then pull the black stands tight.
Flip the bracket over and snip and singe the black ones where they are. The snip and singe the two middle ones in the same spot on the back. :) tah-da!