First you get your favorite head phones.
Now if you have the old Xbox controller your going to want to buy a adapter witch you can buy at almost any tech store. The adapter only fits in the middle hole of the remote.
Now if you have the new controller you only have headphone jack hole which means you can use all headphones with one cord.
One problem may be if you buy the g430 Logitech headset that actually has two cords.
For these headsets your going to want to buy this dual adapter that allows headsets like these to work. An important thing to remember is to also only use the dual adapter if it has 3 black notches.
I hope this was helpful and please leave in the comments if I missed anything. Ur welllcom