How to Communicate in a Long Distance Relationship 👧✈👦

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How to Communicate in a Long Distance Relationship 👧✈👦

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I am assuming since you are on Snapguide, you should have some sort of Apple device. (most tips can be used for other non-Apple devices as well!)

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I am from the States and my man is across the Atlantic in the UK. These are mostly tips to help coping with the distance.  I hope this Snapguide helps you! :)

I am from the States and my man is across the Atlantic in the UK. These are mostly tips to help coping with the distance. I hope this Snapguide helps you! :)

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Please note: I'm not an expert! I made this guide as one to provide tips (advice that I found based off of experience)! If anyone has comments or tips of their own, please leave feedback! I'd love it!

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Being in a LDR is hard. You don't have the conventional (not to mention easier) ways non-LDR couples do. It does help to hope to close the distance. Patience is a major key to this.

Being in a LDR is hard. You don't have the conventional (not to mention easier) ways non-LDR couples do. It does help to hope to close the distance. Patience is a major key to this.

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LDR calls for a lot of trust, honesty and love. Even when times get tough, do not forget why you guys love each other.

LDR calls for a lot of trust, honesty and love. Even when times get tough, do not forget why you guys love each other.

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It is very important to exercise communication skills.

It is very important to exercise communication skills.

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If either of you feel negative feelings, bring them up! Jealousy or suspicion can really damage the trust you need. Try (really try!) to be open with your partner.

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Do not restrict your partner from doing things they love. Encourage their hobbies, let them hang out with their friends.

Do not restrict your partner from doing things they love. Encourage their hobbies, let them hang out with their friends.

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Do tell each other compliments. Tell each other what you want to do when you see each other. Do call as much as possibly (but not every single waking minute), write emails, write letters.

Do tell each other compliments. Tell each other what you want to do when you see each other. Do call as much as possibly (but not every single waking minute), write emails, write letters.

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If possible, try and plan visits to each others' areas. Not only does it get you excited to see each other, planning things together make things really help conversations going.

If possible, try and plan visits to each others' areas. Not only does it get you excited to see each other, planning things together make things really help conversations going.

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Here is an app called Long Distance Relationship. It allows you to create a countdown for when you see your partner next. Here you can post pictures, connect via iMessage and FaceTime directly.

Here is an app called Long Distance Relationship. It allows you to create a countdown for when you see your partner next. Here you can post pictures, connect via iMessage and FaceTime directly.

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There are many ways of communication in a LDR. There are phone calls, texting, instant messaging, social networking, webcaming, emailing, mailing, FaceTiming (woo!) and many more! Here are some apps:

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Don't mind the date/time. Here's what I mean though; your device has FaceTime and iMessage already. Use them!!!

Don't mind the date/time. Here's what I mean though; your device has FaceTime and iMessage already. Use them!!!

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Though this is not my text, here is an example through iMessage if you both have an Apple device.

Though this is not my text, here is an example through iMessage if you both have an Apple device.

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Let's say you guys are limited on texts... Pinger allows unlimited texting as long as it is done within the US (and I think Canada).

Let's say you guys are limited on texts... Pinger allows unlimited texting as long as it is done within the US (and I think Canada).

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Kik is a great app. It is also a texting app, however is it available in all countries and on most devices (including my non-iPhone phone [*gasps*]). And it's free.

Kik is a great app. It is also a texting app, however is it available in all countries and on most devices (including my non-iPhone phone [*gasps*]). And it's free.

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Tango is like FaceTime in that you can use your phone camera to webcam. Tango can be used from your data plan (FaceTime uses wifi only) and it's also free. Also used by other phones and countries. :)

Tango is like FaceTime in that you can use your phone camera to webcam. Tango can be used from your data plan (FaceTime uses wifi only) and it's also free. Also used by other phones and countries. :)

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Also, there is Skype, which is really good. I don't recall why it's not loaded onto my iPod.

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Talkatone runs through Googlephone. Allows free calling to most numbers.

Talkatone runs through Googlephone. Allows free calling to most numbers.

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Viber is another calling app, however, both of you must have the app. I believe it is available only in the Apple store. It is free and the sound quality is more decent than others I have tried.

Viber is another calling app, however, both of you must have the app. I believe it is available only in the Apple store. It is free and the sound quality is more decent than others I have tried.

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Hypotheticals is fun. You can use this app to ask each other "would you rather..."-like questions. Fun if you are unsure what to take about. :)

Hypotheticals is fun. You can use this app to ask each other "would you rather..."-like questions. Fun if you are unsure what to take about. :)

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TheIceBreak allows you text, answer questions (good for conversations and getting to know each other even more!) and share pics. It's fun because each task per day has points for happiness levels. :)

TheIceBreak allows you text, answer questions (good for conversations and getting to know each other even more!) and share pics. It's fun because each task per day has points for happiness levels. :)

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Pair is an app that allows the two of you to share special e-moments. You can draw together, send your location, share pics, text, e-thumbkiss, share events and reminders.

Pair is an app that allows the two of you to share special e-moments. You can draw together, send your location, share pics, text, e-thumbkiss, share events and reminders.

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Thank you for viewing this guide. Any questions, concerns, suggestions... I love feedback, do please comment! :)

Thank you for viewing this guide. Any questions, concerns, suggestions... I love feedback, do please comment! :)

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Tamara Ruiz

:) thanks!

Tamara Ruiz 3 weeks ago

Ella Mcguigan

Avocado is a fun app

Ella Mcguigan 3 months ago

Sultan Khalifa

Skype would be the Best!

Sultan Khalifa 4 months ago

Sofia Lizarraga

Good tips love the apps!!!

Sofia Lizarraga 6 months ago

Cyn Green

Great thanks for sharing all the apps

Cyn Green 8 months ago

Krista Ivie

It's a difficult relationship but well worth it in the long run I think it makes partners miss each other wayyy more .. The hardest is the trusting part tho :/

Krista Ivie 9 months ago

Felix Guerrero

A confident communication is the key.

Felix Guerrero 9 months ago

Joy Lee

I married my LDR last december and we finally live in the same country after 4 years

Joy Lee 9 months ago

Ina Moe

I don't think people are aiming for cool when they fall in love

Ina Moe 9 months ago

Malea Sager

I think long distance relationships are not cool to me anyway :p

Malea Sager 9 months ago

Ina Moe

Well I'm from Norway, and my bf is from Canada. Going on six years now. I spend six months a year in either country, and we go to bed and listen to each other sleep trough Skype. Distance strengthens a relationship, but I will say this: if you are not prepared to give up on your food, your friends, your family, the nature around you, leave before it gets to serious. It will never be the same. I still cry for home, but I am unwilling to go, so take any lesson you can.

Ina Moe 9 months ago

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Nick Batisvo

Thank God, I've been looking for things to make conversations going!

Nick Batisvo 7 months ago

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Megan L

Oh well it's neat

Megan L 9 months ago

Athena M

Thanks! I honestly cannot remember. I think I got it from one of the wallpaper apps. >_<

(author) 9 months ago

Megan L

That background is amazing! Where did you find it?!

Megan L 9 months ago

Athena M

There are a few texting apps mentioned. However, I'm not sure about iMessage on an iPhone. I'm lame and have an iPod touch. Sorry! :X

(author) 9 months ago

Krista Ivie

It does count as texts tho and very easy to go over cause they are sent and received a whole lot faster! It's great!

Krista Ivie 9 months ago

Krista Ivie

No there is no extra charge as long as y'all both have updated your phones and can tell when you have your texts delivered and read that way you know when it gets to one or the other and when one person has read them:) no extra charge!! And it's way faster too :)

Krista Ivie 9 months ago

Chelsea Lyon 🍡

Does iMessaging cost extra though? My boyfriend is living in Japan now and has an iPhone, but I don't want to add any extra fees to my phone bill...

Chelsea Lyon 🍡 9 months ago

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Séphora 🌙

Unfortunately its only for iPhones with front-facing cameras 😒 my 3GS doesn't have it

Séphora 🌙 7 months ago

Sultan Khalifa

Skype is better than Tango cause it also works with 3G and 4G LTE

Sultan Khalifa 4 months ago

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Athena M

@Tina That's great to hear! :)

(author) 9 months ago

Athena M

@Ali agreed! :)

(author) 9 months ago

Tina T

It's also available on Android.

Tina T 9 months ago

Ali Mk

Really good quality of voice, you can also send text messages and send photos instantly...Really good!

Ali Mk 9 months ago

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Gulsum ecem Gok

Very useful guide, thanks

Gulsum ecem Gok 4 months ago

covey chen

Thanks for your guide!very practical for those in LDR

covey chen 5 months ago

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